6 Mistakes To Avoid When Choosing Life Partner

"Married people are on average happier than single people and much happier than divorced people." statement according to a research. When you choose a life partner, you’re choosing a lot of things, including your parenting partner and someone who will deeply influence your children, your eating companion for about 20,000 meals, your travel companion for about 100 vacations, your primary leisure time and retirement friend, your career therapist, and someone whose day you’ll hear about 18,000 times.

6 Mistakes To Avoid When Choosing Life Partner
It is important that you get quality advice when you are trying to choose someone you will spend the rest of your life with. The choice you make and reasons for getting married will determine in lots of ways how happy your union will be.

So given that this is by far the most important thing in life to get right, how is it possible that so many good, smart, otherwise-logical people end up choosing a life partnership that leaves them dissatisfied and unhappy?

There are lots of reasons why people get married but when you look at them you get to see that most of them are caused by making wrong choices when choosing a partner and getting married for the wrong reasons.
How you can avoid these mistakes is what we will be looking at in this article so that you can learn about them and avoid them. 

So read on and do leave me comments after reading.

Mistakes people make when choosing a life partner

  • Getting married because you just need him/her
People get married not because they want to be with their partner but because they just need him/her. When your partner is no more willing to satisfy this need then the marriage goes south. This is a mistake you should avoid; get married to someone you really love and want to be with not because you want him/her for something.
  • Getting married because your peers are all married and you want to be like them
Never put yourself under pressure to find someone to get married to just because all your peers and friends are all married. A common mistake like this is the reason why so many singles end up getting married to someone they are not compatible with.
  • Getting married because he or she was the best you could get
The person you are getting married to should be the best for you not because he or she is the best you were offered. This doesn’t feel right as you will never see yourself as satisfied, happy and fulfilled in the relationship. What you have is not exactly what you want or had expected.
  • Getting married when you still like someone else
I don’t think that you should get married to one person when you are still in love with another person. This can cause you distraction in the relationship and bring about infidelity.
  • Getting married because people said he or she was great
You actually don’t know this person well but basing your conviction on people’s opinion that he or she is great for you.
  • Getting married when you are not sure you can be with this person forever
Take a long look at this person you are about to get married to – if you are not convince this is who you want to spend the rest of your life with, I don’t think that you should go on with the marriage.
These are the mistakes that can steal your marital joy and happiness especially when you end up getting married to the wrong person because of these mistakes.

Do leave me comments on your thoughts and experiences.

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